Hey guys, it's been a while hasn't it? I apologize. But tonight, I'm not going to post something fashion or beauty, but I'm going to post something inspirational.
I get so many DM's, comments, and private messages from all of you worrying about me. Right now I'm in a rut... but we're not here to talk about that. I get messages that tell me to get my chin up and that I'm your inspiration. Frankly, I feel as if I have not done anything inspirational, but I still want to thank all of you for supporting and being there. When I am down you all make me feel like I am worth. To thank and hopefully help some of you, I'm going to share with you all some phrases that really empower me.
I CAN...
It's so easy to just say this. I'm not the most positive person ever, but just telling myself I can is just so empowering. Anyone can. I can be happy without him. I can smile. I can be who I want to be. I can live my dreams. Even if its something that seems close to impossible right now, just saying it makes you feel powerful. I can guarantee it will make you feel so much better. Just believing in yourself and you ability is enough to get you through anything. Just believe in yourself, you can, I believe in you.
I WILL...
Just like "I can..." this is so easy. Its all about trusting in yourself and believing in yourself. You don't need others to believe in you. You are you, and you are the most important person in your life. You. Just saying things like: I will get over this. I will cope and get through this; That can really change the course of your future. Be positive. I will stay positive. Don't even put a try in there, because just like previously, you can. Its not: I will try to be happier; Its: I will be happier.
I AM...
No one knows you better than yourself. No one can tell you who you are or who you will become. Be confident. Be you, because you are one of a kind and you were put on this Earth for a reason. For me, I love yo say: I am going to get better, or I am going to get through this. Other phrases would be: I am special, I am beautiful, or I am worth so much more. You are you. Never forget it. Be sure of yourself and will resonate within you and soon outside of you to others in your life.
I AM GRATEFUL FOR...
Humans always want what we cant have. Its just a fact of life. We can completely stop being selfish and wanting, wanting, wanting; However, we can stop every now and then and just think about the many things we already have and be grateful. Now a days people live a more privileged way of life, so just taking a good 2-5 minutes of your day to just be grateful can be healthy. It really puts things in perspective. Some things I am grateful for are you guys. You all help me become a better me and I'm grateful. I'm grateful for my mother and the wonderful life i was given. Life can be tough, but I'm grateful that I made it into the world. I can't waste this great blessing I was given on being a recluse.
TODAY WILL BE A GOOD DAY.
Do I even need to explain it? Just saying this in the morning a few times while getting ready for the day ahead and really alter the course of your day. You need to stay positive, I need to stay positive. Its very comforting to just look at myself, barefaced, and say: Today will be a good day. It just sets you up for amazing things. Just try it. Its easy.
Now I'm not saying I am the happiest or the most positive person on this Earth, I am actually a very sad and lonely person right now, but Just by doing these few things, it can really pick me up from the rut I'm lying in right now. Now it can't get me all the way out, but it can at least pick me up and get me standing. I want to get back to me. I haven't felt like me in a while and its time to change that. Lets all smile and wish for many happier days. I love you all, you're all so special to me and I'm so happy I have the blessing of being able to share this with you all and I'm so grateful that i have people who want to help me and look to me for inspiration. <3 Stay beautiful
